I arranged to meet up with a guy a few weeks ago for bondage and WAM (wet and messy) play, but I chickened out and he, rightly, called me a time waster and said he wasn’t interested. I left another online ad yesterday, looking for the same thing, and he replied. I texted him, explaining that we’d been in contact a few weeks ago, that I’d chickened out, and that I was just letting him know instead of leaving him waiting around for a response. I said I understood that he wouldn’t want to meet up. But he’s just texted me back, saying that he will want to meet up, and that the ball is in my court.

Part of me wants to meet up with him. The thing is, I’ll be tied up, totally helpless and vulnerable in other words, and what’s more he’s into fisting, gas masks, cock and ball torture, and poppers. And for all I know he could still be angry at me, and using this as an opportunity to get his own back. So part of me feels scared. What do you think I should do?

My ex was 18 years older than me and said yes 2 anything sexually she love sex outdoors bondage anal rimming me and her dildos role play fisting evan golden showers my new gf was a virgin when I met her and beyond misonry doggy style and oral she don’t want 2 know in time will she gradually get more experiment more or will it always b this way