Is it time for the feminine to let go of it’s rage at the masculine that has failed to serve her properly?
Or do we yet need more men out there who have recognised this truth first?

Is it time for the feminine to let go of it’s rage at the masculine that has failed to serve her properly?
Or do we yet need more men out there who have recognised this truth first?

Two doctors, in my town, are directly responsible for the death, last Friday, of my wife. She died of congestive lung and heart failure and diabetes. She had never been tested for diabetes and the doctor ignored all signs of fluid build up. When she was in the hospital under his care he “forgot” to give her the proper medicine. I called him a murderer and I was issued a criminal warning. He killed my wife and I was issued the warning.
Is there anyone who knows a lawyer with enough guts to take a case like this in Texas?

about 2 months ago she was caught drunk with some random boy.shes 14 years old. she lied to me and she said she was going to the mall next door to buy some pads since she was on her period, when she was at home she was all drunk and all over this guy in her bra. she claims to say that she was in the shower and the guy helped her. i called security guards and beat up the guy very nicely, he was pretty much bleeding. my kid locked herself in the shower so she wouldn’t get out, i barged in and i beat her up good till she was screaming and crying. she started screaming abuse abuse, but how is that abuse? i am punishing her very nicely. i threw her laptop on her face and i also didn’t give her food for about 2 days. i yelled at her for about 2 hours straight saying i had no hope in her and that she was a failure. she yelled back at me saying she hates me and that im a fucking idiot and bad things like that.
we took her to the shrink and the shrink agrees that i did a good job. i took away her skinny jeans and dresses and skirts and everything else. her blackberry apperentally got “lost” but i don’t believe that. now she wears hobo clothes and stuff like that. i dont let her access her facebook or internet at all, we set one computer in the middle of the room. about a month ago i asked for her laptop password, but she claims to have forgotten it. i give her money every week and its a good amount, now i am buying her new clothes. but i have no idea what to do with her anymore, i still don’t trust her and its been 2 months and she says she learned her lesson and she says she will never do it again but i don’t believe her. to be honest i don’t even care about her, i just like keeping her in the house. also making a note that i barely let her go out at all, so she lost my trust by going out. im pretty overprotective. now-a-days she’s asskissing by making me cookies, getting straight A’s, donating to charity, sleeping early, spending time with the family, cleaning the dishes, cleaning the house, shes like my personal slave now! but she keeps complaining that she wants to get ungrounded, i don’t want to unground her because i don’t trust her. so is my daughters punishment good or should i add more?

Hello Anne P,
I am truly sorry to hear about Shiloh. I know exactly what you are going through as I am just as heartbroken as you. Just one week ago the exact same thing happened to our 11.5 year old Golden Retriever, Sophie. She was absolutely fine one minute and next thing we knew she was down on her tummy, legs sprawled out and she lost control of her bladder and bowels. She seemed to be a bit confused and it took her awhile to get her wits about her and stand up. She was also breathing heavily but we thought it had to do with her new dose of thyroid meds. We called the Vet and he told us not to give Sophie any further thyroid meds and if she was no better then to call him the next morning. Well she was no better so he asked us to bring her in right away. The Vet checked Sophie’s gums and said that they were very pale therefore she must be anemic. He kept her to run some blood-work and ex-rays. Within an hour the Vet called to tell us that Sophie was in the end stages of kidney failure. I was SHOCKED!!! How could this be when she was not showing any signs of being sick?. The Vet mentioned that he was shocked as well and he has never seen anything like this in his 40 years of practice. He also told us that her blood-work was very poor. The ex-rays did not show anything wrong so it had to be the end stages of kidney failure. Her blood level was only at 24 and he said that she was terribly anemic and there was nothing he could do for her and that my husband and I had to make a decision on putting her to sleep. We were absolutely dumbfounded. We immediately went over to the Vet’s and he was leaning towards having Sophie put to sleep but none of this made sense so I told him I wanted to bring Sophie home and if she has to be put to sleep then she will be put to sleep at home. I asked him if he would come to the house to do this for us but he was too busy. He gave us the info of a Vet who only does house calls so when we brought Sophie home on the Thursday morning my husband called this Vet and HE was too busy. Can you believe this? When we took her to the “new” Vet’s Friday a.m. she could not walk because she was so weak. The same thing when we were leaving so my husband and a friend had to carry her out to our jeep using a stretcher. I was devastated and could not fathom what was happening. My sister looked on line and she said that Sophie did not show any signs of end stage kidney failure. That’s when I decided to get a second opinion so I called another Vet’s office that afternoon and the earliest we could get Sophie into see him was the next morning. The new Vet came in to see Sophie, checked her gums and said the same thing, they were very pale therefore she was anemic. He checked her tummy and she did wince and tighten up while he was pressing on her tummy. He ran more blood-work and then told us that her blood level dropped from 24 to 21 in just 24 hours. With no signs of blood coming out of her she had to be bleeding internally. This is when he suspected a tumor on her spleen and with her being so weak and low blood levels that the tumor could have very well broken open and there was nothing he could do for her. He did say if dogs have surgery to take out the spleen, for the most part, the dogs usually die on the operating table and if they do make it through then she would only get another couple of months to live. We just couldn’t see us putting her through all of that so we decided to put her to sleep. Sophie was not as active as your Shilo and didn’t go for a walk the day she became sick so please don’t punish yourself in thinking that it was the run that made her sick. For the past week I have been reading online about everything to do with Sophie and I was feeling guilty too that I didn’t realize there was anything wrong with Sophie. But now with reading your story and some other stories, our puppies had the exact same illness and there was nothing we could have done to prevent it. Our heads were reeling because it all happened so quickly but I thank God that Sophie did not suffer. I asked the new Vet, “Do you think Sophie is suffering?” He said “No, but just think back to when you were the sickest in your life and you had absolutely no energy. He said that Sophie was feeling that 100 times worse than what we felt when we were so sick.” The Vet was kind enough to give us an hour with Sophie before and after the needle. I cried as much for Sophie while I was with her as I did when my Mom died. Sophie was my shadow right from the beginning. We were glued at the hip. I know exactly what you are going through Anne. It is so heartbreaking, but we really need to focus on all the love and the good life we gave our puppies. The happy memories and pictures are what’s going to help us deal with our tremendous loss and begin to heal. We will be okay. It’s just going to take some time.